Having A Moan....

heat · 02 Jan 2004, 20:39

Hiya Guys and Guyeses..

Am feeling rather sorry for myself at the moment. Life just isn't going my way. Had some bad news just before Christmas and it was all downhill from there. Haven't really been feeling well for a while so took myself off to the doctors earlier, only for him to tell me i have got shingles. He gave me some medication and told me to rest as much as possible and to have no stress. YEAH RIGHT!!!!! What planet does this fella live on??? I have 2 demanding one year olds, a hubby about as useful as a chocolate teapot and i just haven't got time to be ill just now. I feel so crap and all i wanna do is sleep but i can't. Life hasta go on. I hafta be the mother and the wife. i feel like i have no time to be me - i've just completely lost my identity. And now im just jabbering so i'll go.

Thanks for letting me rant, folks. Love ya all....

*AndyK* · 02 Jan 2004, 20:44

Oh no! Sorry to hear that! Hope things improve sooner rather than later.

And remember even a chocolate teapot can be melted down and made into a 500g bar of dairy milk - so give him a prod from me!!

[RDH]draconia · 02 Jan 2004, 20:48

poor heat

sorry to hear about your problems

but if you can join in chat and we will all cheer you up and forget your worries and make you laugh again even if it is for a short while

Rob The Badger · 02 Jan 2004, 21:19

It could be worse, your hair could be on fire.

DIZZY DRUMMER · 02 Jan 2004, 21:31

Heat - sorry to hear you are not well

You do need to rest - get hubby to do his bit - he has to with 2 young ones.
I had a really rough time of it 10 years ago with my health (needed emergency hysterectomy) when my daughter was a toddler, my problems have only just started to get better. My husband was holding down a full time job and had to look after a young one. He managed it. Men have to realise that they have responsibilities when the "mum" is not well. Talk to him - tell him you need time for yourself.

Before all you men start on me - I am not having a go - just pointing out facts. Sometimes us women need extra help in our hour of need.

Drac wrote:

Quote:

sorry to hear about your problems
but if you can join in chat and we will all cheer you up and forget your worries and make you laugh again even if it is for a short while

get yourself on the chatroom after 9pm - we'll cheer u up

Not very good at advice - but hope it may help a little

take care

love Sharon xx

Rob The Badger · 02 Jan 2004, 21:51

Quote:

Originally Posted by FALLEN ANGEL1000

Before all you men start on me - I am not having a go - just pointing out facts. Sometimes us women need extra help in our hour of need.

Then tell us. . .

DIZZY DRUMMER · 02 Jan 2004, 22:15

Badger wrote :

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Then tell us. . .

I would ...

black dog · 03 Jan 2004, 00:18

I am sorry to hear that you are not well and hope you will feel better soon.

You must try and get some help from your husband. If he could take the children out for a while so that you could have some peace and quiet I'm sure it would help you and isn't too hard for him. Do you have any family or friends that could look after the children for an hour or so to give you a break?

I hope this helps. You must be a star anyway to look after two 1 year olds. I found one was tiring I can't imagine two. Well look after yourself.

Best wishes

Shells

Bren · 03 Jan 2004, 00:58

So sorry to hear this Heat, can't be easy for you at all at the moment.
feel better soon, and take care of yourself.
Bren

dottie · 03 Jan 2004, 00:59

Hiya Heat, So sad to hear how down you are, life's a "crock of shit sometimes" I know. But as they would sing from Monty Python "Always look on the bright side of life", just imagine that scene that should make you smile a little. Go on you know you want to smile just a little :)

love dottiexxx

Lauren · 03 Jan 2004, 01:23

hey heat
sorry to hear you're feeling down. I can imagine how difficult this is with two one year olds (i have one 3 year old), but you really have to take time for yourself when you can even if its only asking hubby to watch them for 1/2 an hour while you have a soak in the bath. Or while they're asleep, ignore the housework (they won't care if the ironings not done) and read a book or have a nap yourself! But the most important thing, as dottie says, is to 'keep your chin up' there's no better medicine than the power of positive thinking.
Hope you feel better soon
Lauren xx

shadow1000001 · 03 Jan 2004, 01:45

I'm sorry to hear that you aren't feeling well Heat. The doctor would have an easier time telling you not to breathe

Just try to get all the rest that you can and if you ever need to vent, you know how to reach me

Love,
Maria
xxxx

CarolM · 03 Jan 2004, 04:40

Hey Heat huns,

ive been working sorry to hear about this mate, l

Loves ya huns

talk to me anytime,

your friends forever CAROL AND NEILXXXXXXX.

BadAttitude · 03 Jan 2004, 08:22

Hi, Heat
I am so sorry that you are feeling under the weather right know. There are so many things that I would like to say unfortunatly the words won't come right now. Please take some time for youself and let your body heal, rest is very important to get well.

I can't offer much support but as I have so much pain going on my life right know, but I can always lend and ear at least when I am helping other with there problems it gives me less time to think aobut my own problems. Any time you want to vent please pm me and I be glad to listen.

I hope that you feel better soon.

Love & Happiness
Autumn

Terri · 03 Jan 2004, 14:46

Heat hun, so sorry to hear you're not well.

Try and get as much rest as you can, I know it's easier said than done when you're a mum (and I speak from experience there!)
As for that doc:

Quote:

Originally Posted by heat

.......rest as much as possible and to have no stress. YEAH RIGHT!!!!! What planet does this fella live on???

I think he must come from the same planet as mine, cos only last week I was told this too

Take Care
Luv Terri x

heat · 03 Jan 2004, 15:19

Thank you guys all so very very much. You people are so special to me. I'm feeling a little better today, the pain is still there and im still knackered, but hubbs has taken the boys out so i can get some housework done - just having a quick 10 mins on here. Just to know that you guys and guyesses are thinking of me has really bucked me up - im sorry i was so down yesterday - i just felt so alone. Thanks go to you all - you're all stars. Love ya's. xxxxxxx

CarolM · 03 Jan 2004, 15:46

we all loves ya too,

take care hunnie.xxx

shadow1000001 · 03 Jan 2004, 17:00

We love you too Heat

Just remember that you are never alone here

dottie · 03 Jan 2004, 22:04

Love you my friend Heat :) and the world :) with you :)

love dottie
xxx

R. · 03 Jan 2004, 23:47

Hope that cheers you up a little.

shadow1000001 · 04 Jan 2004, 01:47

That cheered me up R. and I wasn't even sad

CarolM · 04 Jan 2004, 03:04

Same here.

Bren · 04 Jan 2004, 11:17

Hello Heat,
hope you are feeling a little better today

Thinking of you
Bren

black dog · 04 Jan 2004, 20:00

Great picture R.

Hope you are feeling a bit better today Heat. My thoughts are with you.

Shells

DIZZY DRUMMER · 04 Jan 2004, 21:13

- great pic R

02 Jan 2004, 20:39	#1
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	Having A Moan.... Hiya Guys and Guyeses.. Am feeling rather sorry for myself at the moment. Life just isn't going my way. Had some bad news just before Christmas and it was all downhill from there. Haven't really been feeling well for a while so took myself off to the doctors earlier, only for him to tell me i have got shingles. He gave me some medication and told me to rest as much as possible and to have no stress. YEAH RIGHT!!!!! What planet does this fella live on??? I have 2 demanding one year olds, a hubby about as useful as a chocolate teapot and i just haven't got time to be ill just now. I feel so crap and all i wanna do is sleep but i can't. Life hasta go on. I hafta be the mother and the wife. i feel like i have no time to be me - i've just completely lost my identity. And now im just jabbering so i'll go. Thanks for letting me rant, folks. Love ya all....

02 Jan 2004, 20:44	#2
AndyK Relentless Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Over the top..... seeing what's on the other side Posts: 18,694	Oh no! Sorry to hear that! Hope things improve sooner rather than later. And remember even a chocolate teapot can be melted down and made into a 500g bar of dairy milk - so give him a prod from me!!

02 Jan 2004, 20:48	#3
[RDH]draconia Super Loafer Join Date: 29.10.2003 Location: wickford,essex,england Posts: 374	poor heat sorry to hear about your problems but if you can join in chat and we will all cheer you up and forget your worries and make you laugh again even if it is for a short while

02 Jan 2004, 21:19	#4
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	It could be worse, your hair could be on fire.

03 Jan 2004, 00:18	#8
black dog Mega Loafer Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,667	I am sorry to hear that you are not well and hope you will feel better soon. You must try and get some help from your husband. If he could take the children out for a while so that you could have some peace and quiet I'm sure it would help you and isn't too hard for him. Do you have any family or friends that could look after the children for an hour or so to give you a break? I hope this helps. You must be a star anyway to look after two 1 year olds. I found one was tiring I can't imagine two. Well look after yourself. Best wishes Shells

03 Jan 2004, 00:58	#9
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	So sorry to hear this Heat, can't be easy for you at all at the moment. feel better soon, and take care of yourself. Bren

03 Jan 2004, 00:59	#10
dottie queen post- whore extraordinaire Join Date: 29.01.2003 Location: Still Rockin' at "72" Posts: 13,181	Hiya Heat, So sad to hear how down you are, life's a "crock of shit sometimes" I know. But as they would sing from Monty Python "Always look on the bright side of life", just imagine that scene that should make you smile a little. Go on you know you want to smile just a little :) love dottiexxx

03 Jan 2004, 01:23	#11
Lauren Super Loafer Join Date: 19.11.2003 Location: Rotherham, UK Posts: 224	hey heat sorry to hear you're feeling down. I can imagine how difficult this is with two one year olds (i have one 3 year old), but you really have to take time for yourself when you can even if its only asking hubby to watch them for 1/2 an hour while you have a soak in the bath. Or while they're asleep, ignore the housework (they won't care if the ironings not done) and read a book or have a nap yourself! But the most important thing, as dottie says, is to 'keep your chin up' there's no better medicine than the power of positive thinking. Hope you feel better soon Lauren xx

03 Jan 2004, 01:45	#12
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	I'm sorry to hear that you aren't feeling well Heat. The doctor would have an easier time telling you not to breathe Just try to get all the rest that you can and if you ever need to vent, you know how to reach me Love, Maria xxxx

03 Jan 2004, 04:40	#13
CarolM Mega Loafer Join Date: 15.06.2003 Location: Near The End Of The Line Posts: 1,498	Hey Heat huns, ive been working sorry to hear about this mate, l Loves ya huns talk to me anytime, your friends forever CAROL AND NEILXXXXXXX.

03 Jan 2004, 08:22	#14
BadAttitude Super Loafer Join Date: 20.11.2003 Location: Florida Posts: 482	Hi, Heat I am so sorry that you are feeling under the weather right know. There are so many things that I would like to say unfortunatly the words won't come right now. Please take some time for youself and let your body heal, rest is very important to get well. I can't offer much support but as I have so much pain going on my life right know, but I can always lend and ear at least when I am helping other with there problems it gives me less time to think aobut my own problems. Any time you want to vent please pm me and I be glad to listen. I hope that you feel better soon. Love & Happiness Autumn

03 Jan 2004, 15:19	#16
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	Thank you guys all so very very much. You people are so special to me. I'm feeling a little better today, the pain is still there and im still knackered, but hubbs has taken the boys out so i can get some housework done - just having a quick 10 mins on here. Just to know that you guys and guyesses are thinking of me has really bucked me up - im sorry i was so down yesterday - i just felt so alone. Thanks go to you all - you're all stars. Love ya's. xxxxxxx

03 Jan 2004, 15:46	#17
CarolM Mega Loafer Join Date: 15.06.2003 Location: Near The End Of The Line Posts: 1,498	we all loves ya too, take care hunnie.xxx

03 Jan 2004, 17:00	#18
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	We love you too Heat Just remember that you are never alone here

03 Jan 2004, 22:04	#19
dottie queen post- whore extraordinaire Join Date: 29.01.2003 Location: Still Rockin' at "72" Posts: 13,181	Love you my friend Heat :) and the world :) with you :) love dottie xxx

03 Jan 2004, 23:47	#20
R. You dig. Join Date: 02.04.2002 Location: On the fothermucker Posts: 7,179	Hope that cheers you up a little.

04 Jan 2004, 01:47	#21
shadow1000001 Mega Loafer Join Date: 10.07.2003 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada Posts: 2,580	That cheered me up R. and I wasn't even sad

04 Jan 2004, 03:04	#22
CarolM Mega Loafer Join Date: 15.06.2003 Location: Near The End Of The Line Posts: 1,498	Same here.

04 Jan 2004, 11:17	#23
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	Hello Heat, hope you are feeling a little better today Thinking of you Bren

04 Jan 2004, 20:00	#24
black dog Mega Loafer Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,667	Great picture R. Hope you are feeling a bit better today Heat. My thoughts are with you. Shells

04 Jan 2004, 21:13	#25
DIZZY DRUMMER Always Ready For A Bang Join Date: 30.11.2003 Location: Left In The Dark .......... AGAIN Posts: 6,389	- great pic R