Need your thoughts and prayers.

heat · 09 Jun 2004, 23:54

Hiya Peoples,

Not really sure where to start on this, but please bear with me.

As most of you know, i'm pregnant, and it was with triplets. Sadly one of our precious babies stopped growing at 9 weeks, and died, and hard as that is to deal with, we've been dealt another blow, and i guess i just need some support and prayers.

We have been told that one of our babies has a serious illness, which basically means that when he's born he's not going to live very long. We know he's a he because the condition that he has only ever affects boys. We have decided to call him Ciaran. Hi condition means that he can't wee, and therefore he'll go into renal failure, if he's not already there, and his lungs wont develop because he can't wee to produce the amniotic fluid he needs to help them, which means that when he's born he wont be able to breathe, and he'll die soon after birth.

There is a small chance - 0.2% - that the blockage will clear itself, but it's very very unlikely that that will happen.

I guess what i'm asking you guys for...is to send Ciaran all your prayers and thoughts. I've never been one for God or anything, but at the moment i'm willing to give anything a go. I'd even sell my soul to the devil if that was what it'd take to help him live.

I'm sorry that this is such a sad post - but if you could just give me 2 mins of your time, just to pray to whoever your god is...then that would mean the world to me.

Thanks folks.

Heat xxx

*AndyK* · 10 Jun 2004, 00:00

Heat.

I think it goes without saying, and I think I speak for everyone here when I say that you and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers at this time!

Take care!

AndyK

Chris · 10 Jun 2004, 00:02

Quote:

Originally Posted by AndyK

Heat.

I think it goes without saying, and I think I speak for everyone here when I say that you and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers at this time!

Take care!

AndyK

I agree entirely.

Chris

christa · 10 Jun 2004, 00:10

Done it heat and will continue to pray for Ciaran hunny. As you know I have a strong faith and i hope me sharing that with you will help in some small way. I will see our minister tomorrow and will ask him to put out a prayer circle for you. This is where he contacts certain people in our church who will all pray for you at the same time and this is more powerful for us. I will be at church tomorrow on my own so I will spend time in the chapel just for you.

God bless
Christaxxxxxxxxxxx

Lizziebaby · 10 Jun 2004, 00:12

Heat,

My prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God give Ciaran the strength to fight and keep him safe.

I am at a total loss of anything else to say, I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling at this time.

Liz

shadow1000001 · 10 Jun 2004, 00:15

Quote:

Originally Posted by AndyK

Heat.

I think it goes without saying, and I think I speak for everyone here when I say that you and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers at this time!

Take care!

AndyK

I totally agree with Andy.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Jen · 10 Jun 2004, 00:30

...thinking of you all.

Keep Rocking · 10 Jun 2004, 01:08

I don't find the words to express what I want to say!
So I just give you a big hug

((((((((((Heat))))))))))

angel eyes · 10 Jun 2004, 01:36

The power of prayer is a wonderful thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. May they give you the strength and courage to bear the heavy burden you are carrying at the moment. Hoping for a little miracle.

God Bless

Angelxxx

DIZZY DRUMMER · 10 Jun 2004, 06:51

Heather - you know where I am if you need me.

My thoughts are with you, Ciaran and the rest of the family at this difficult time

Love Sharon

xxxxx

Eva · 10 Jun 2004, 07:22

I'm thinking about you and yours and add you to my prayers.

Love,
Eva

Feleena · 10 Jun 2004, 07:51

Heat

Im so very sorry to hear you sad news.

I will be praying for you, God bless you all.

Hugs

Feleena x

black dog · 10 Jun 2004, 08:28

Heat, my thoughts and prayers are with you, little Cirian and the rest of your family.

**Diane** · 10 Jun 2004, 09:43

Heat,

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ciaran and your family.

God bless you all.

Diane

dottie · 10 Jun 2004, 10:00

For all of you...........

I said a prayer for you today
I hope you didn't mind
I asked the Lord to comfort you
and put your tears behind.

I prayed for peace and mercy too
to help you through the day
And for His loving guidance
as He leads you on the way.

You need not walk this path alone
so I prayed He'd hold your hand
and offer you some guidance
in a way you'll understand.

I asked Him for little miracles
and to bless you every day
Keep searching for the Rainbows -
and let Him light your way.

Ageing Bat · 10 Jun 2004, 10:27

My prayers are with you and your family Heat at this very difficult time. The power of prayer is indeed a wonderful thing.

May you find some comfort from the love and prayers of those around you.

Sarah

xxx

Rob The Badger · 10 Jun 2004, 11:26

I'll be thinking of you.

Heli · 10 Jun 2004, 11:33

Heat!! Words fail me to show you how sorry I am!!! Like you I'm not a great believer but I am willing to try anything with you just to make sure that everything turns out ok!!

Lots of love to you, Ciaran, and your remaining children!

Hang in there!

xxxxxxxxx

Helena

xxxxxxxxxx

Deb · 10 Jun 2004, 12:23

Heat

I am so truly sorry to read this. I can't put into words how I feel, but I hope and pray for you all.

Deb

KebLou · 10 Jun 2004, 13:57

Heat
I was going to write a poem but as I sat down I realised there was no words that express the way you feel right now. Right now you are in everyones thoughts in my house and at school. Let God bless Ciaran and I pray he is in that 0.2%.

Best Wishes,
Keb.

Gez · 10 Jun 2004, 16:20

.....a prayer for you and your Children Heat.........

Keep hope and sometimes prayers come true. I hope so for you.

Bren · 10 Jun 2004, 20:19

you are in my thoughts and prayers Heat
Much love
Bren

Testify · 10 Jun 2004, 20:23

thinkin of u...

mariella · 10 Jun 2004, 21:18

Dear Heat,

I cannot even begin to tell you how much I wish this would be different for you!

xxx

Mariella
...thinking of you and your precious loved ones daily from now on. And sending you all my love!

Terri · 10 Jun 2004, 22:06

Heat,

I'm so sorry, I can't begin to imagine what u must be going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Terri x

09 Jun 2004, 23:54	#1
heat Rampant Loafer... Join Date: 29.07.2002 Location: welshy wales Posts: 5,706	Need your thoughts and prayers. Hiya Peoples, Not really sure where to start on this, but please bear with me. As most of you know, i'm pregnant, and it was with triplets. Sadly one of our precious babies stopped growing at 9 weeks, and died, and hard as that is to deal with, we've been dealt another blow, and i guess i just need some support and prayers. We have been told that one of our babies has a serious illness, which basically means that when he's born he's not going to live very long. We know he's a he because the condition that he has only ever affects boys. We have decided to call him Ciaran. Hi condition means that he can't wee, and therefore he'll go into renal failure, if he's not already there, and his lungs wont develop because he can't wee to produce the amniotic fluid he needs to help them, which means that when he's born he wont be able to breathe, and he'll die soon after birth. There is a small chance - 0.2% - that the blockage will clear itself, but it's very very unlikely that that will happen. I guess what i'm asking you guys for...is to send Ciaran all your prayers and thoughts. I've never been one for God or anything, but at the moment i'm willing to give anything a go. I'd even sell my soul to the devil if that was what it'd take to help him live. I'm sorry that this is such a sad post - but if you could just give me 2 mins of your time, just to pray to whoever your god is...then that would mean the world to me. Thanks folks. Heat xxx

10 Jun 2004, 00:00	#2
AndyK Relentless Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Over the top..... seeing what's on the other side Posts: 18,694	Heat. I think it goes without saying, and I think I speak for everyone here when I say that you and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers at this time! Take care! AndyK

10 Jun 2004, 00:10	#4
christa Super Loafer Join Date: 23.05.2003 Location: Nottingham Posts: 663	Done it heat and will continue to pray for Ciaran hunny. As you know I have a strong faith and i hope me sharing that with you will help in some small way. I will see our minister tomorrow and will ask him to put out a prayer circle for you. This is where he contacts certain people in our church who will all pray for you at the same time and this is more powerful for us. I will be at church tomorrow on my own so I will spend time in the chapel just for you. God bless Christaxxxxxxxxxxx

10 Jun 2004, 00:12	#5
Lizziebaby Senior Loafer Join Date: 26.11.2003 Location: W.G.C. Posts: 148	Heat, My prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God give Ciaran the strength to fight and keep him safe. I am at a total loss of anything else to say, I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling at this time. Liz

10 Jun 2004, 00:30	#7
Jen Arrrgh! Join Date: 01.03.2003 Location: Edinburgh Posts: 2,938	...thinking of you all.

10 Jun 2004, 01:08	#8
Keep Rocking Super Loafer Join Date: 06.11.2003 Location: Sitting on the steps outside, looking so restless and reckless and lost! Posts: 820	I don't find the words to express what I want to say! So I just give you a big hug ((((((((((Heat))))))))))

10 Jun 2004, 01:36	#9
angel eyes Senior Loafer Join Date: 18.11.2003 Location: North East Posts: 183	The power of prayer is a wonderful thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. May they give you the strength and courage to bear the heavy burden you are carrying at the moment. Hoping for a little miracle. God Bless Angelxxx

10 Jun 2004, 06:51	#10
DIZZY DRUMMER Always Ready For A Bang Join Date: 30.11.2003 Location: Left In The Dark .......... AGAIN Posts: 6,389	Heather - you know where I am if you need me. My thoughts are with you, Ciaran and the rest of the family at this difficult time Love Sharon xxxxx

10 Jun 2004, 07:22	#11
Eva friend Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 1,788	I'm thinking about you and yours and add you to my prayers. Love, Eva

10 Jun 2004, 07:51	#12
Feleena Super Loafer Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Bedford UK Posts: 562	Heat Im so very sorry to hear you sad news. I will be praying for you, God bless you all. Hugs Feleena x

10 Jun 2004, 08:28	#13
black dog Mega Loafer Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Cornwall Posts: 1,667	Heat, my thoughts and prayers are with you, little Cirian and the rest of your family.

10 Jun 2004, 09:43	#14
Diane Super Moderator Join Date: 04.02.2003 Location: Guernsey, Channel Islands Posts: 3,462	Heat, My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ciaran and your family. God bless you all. Diane

10 Jun 2004, 10:00	#15
dottie queen post- whore extraordinaire Join Date: 29.01.2003 Location: Still Rockin' at "72" Posts: 13,181	For all of you........... I said a prayer for you today I hope you didn't mind I asked the Lord to comfort you and put your tears behind. I prayed for peace and mercy too to help you through the day And for His loving guidance as He leads you on the way. You need not walk this path alone so I prayed He'd hold your hand and offer you some guidance in a way you'll understand. I asked Him for little miracles and to bless you every day Keep searching for the Rainbows - and let Him light your way.

10 Jun 2004, 10:27	#16
Ageing Bat Young at heart. Slightly older in other places. Join Date: 20.11.2003 Location: Here! Posts: 1,311	My prayers are with you and your family Heat at this very difficult time. The power of prayer is indeed a wonderful thing. May you find some comfort from the love and prayers of those around you. Sarah xxx

10 Jun 2004, 11:26	#17
Rob The Badger Too sexy for this post Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 2,895	I'll be thinking of you.

10 Jun 2004, 11:33	#18
Heli Daddy's little internet junkie Join Date: 29.01.2004 Location: Grimsby Posts: 4,596	Heat!! Words fail me to show you how sorry I am!!! Like you I'm not a great believer but I am willing to try anything with you just to make sure that everything turns out ok!! Lots of love to you, Ciaran, and your remaining children! Hang in there! xxxxxxxxx Helena xxxxxxxxxx

10 Jun 2004, 12:23	#19
Deb Mega Loafer Join Date: 26.04.2003 Location: Did I say that?... Posts: 4,162	Heat I am so truly sorry to read this. I can't put into words how I feel, but I hope and pray for you all. Deb

10 Jun 2004, 13:57	#20
KebLou Mega Loafer Join Date: 02.03.2004 Location: The Arena of the Unwell Posts: 3,177	Heat I was going to write a poem but as I sat down I realised there was no words that express the way you feel right now. Right now you are in everyones thoughts in my house and at school. Let God bless Ciaran and I pray he is in that 0.2%. Best Wishes, Keb.

10 Jun 2004, 16:20	#21
Gez Knicker thief Join Date: 17.04.2003 Location: auch...not on the fence Posts: 5,633	.....a prayer for you and your Children Heat......... Keep hope and sometimes prayers come true. I hope so for you.

10 Jun 2004, 20:19	#22
Bren The Bat Join Date: 23.03.2003 Location: Roosting on a Silver-Black Phantom Bike. Posts: 10,017	you are in my thoughts and prayers Heat Much love Bren

10 Jun 2004, 20:23	#23
Testify ragamuffin Join Date: 21.05.2003 Location: xxx daydreaming xxx Posts: 5,023	thinkin of u...

10 Jun 2004, 21:18	#24
mariella Mega Loafer Join Date: 04.02.2003 Location: Holland Posts: 4,063	Dear Heat, I cannot even begin to tell you how much I wish this would be different for you! xxx Mariella ...thinking of you and your precious loved ones daily from now on. And sending you all my love!

10 Jun 2004, 22:06	#25
Terri Super T Join Date: 14.05.2003 Posts: 1,235	Heat, I'm so sorry, I can't begin to imagine what u must be going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Terri x