Wedding do's & don'ts - Page 2

mszee · 06 Sep 2008, 19:17

Her name is Amanda

Blackkat13 · 06 Sep 2008, 22:03

Tonight is the last bacherlotte party's and the brides maid that is throwing it is going to make my sister where a veil that has condoms glued to it. My sister don't want where it or play the card game her bride maid has in store for her since it is don't do the card take a shot. I'm not going since I don't drive and it's 20 miles away, kinda wanta go but don't drink so it'll be kinda dull for me. My sister don't want to do anything like kiss another guy, where pantys around her feet, excange bras, give out her number, and those are the tame ones they get more worse.

Pudding · 08 Sep 2008, 11:32

Seems like your sister is smart and justs wants to have fun but not behave like a slut.

Pud

LucyK! · 08 Sep 2008, 13:57

I'd rather a silent wedding reception than play any of the songs mentioned in this thread!

Blackkat13 · 08 Sep 2008, 21:19

I was hanging out w/my sister and her boyfriend and we were at the maid of honors house with her family. We all had a nice big helping of penis cake. That was something a little different and I brought home to my parents a ball each. Yeah, Pud my sister can be smart at times but she does do alot of dumb things at times to. She said the best time of the night was wearing the vale with condoms on it and trying to glow bowl.

duke knooby · 08 Sep 2008, 22:41

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucy!

I'd rather a silent wedding reception than play any of the songs mentioned in this thread!

or, you could get mr king to sing you a song.. while playin the guitar

Battybarb · 08 Sep 2008, 22:59

Pud that video is bloody brilliant...so funny..

Pudding · 09 Sep 2008, 02:31

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucy!

I'd rather a silent wedding reception than play any of the songs mentioned in this thread!

Good call.

Me and Mrs Pud decided to have a 70's fancy dress disco theme party with a rolling buffet and only invite people we liked. That was half our extended families uninvited, no sit down meal with boring speeches and no f'king Cliff Richards. A few people did get a bit uppity about our decisions but since we paid for the whole thing, as they say he who pays the piper calls the tune.

Pud

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 11:19

To hell with everyone else, if you don't want someone at your wedding then you don't invite them, it's your special day, end of (joint decision, obviously!

)

Pud I'm dying to see your wedding album!

mszee · 09 Sep 2008, 14:49

Yeah, I thought it was a very cool wedding too...

Pud...

???

~Helen~ · 09 Sep 2008, 14:53

Even if you do invite everyone people will still get uppity about something. At my cousin's wedding, one of my aunts was getting irritated because people she thought weren't as close relations as she was, were sitting closer to the top table than her. But my cousin had gone to a lot of trouble to make sure everyone was sitting with people with whom they would get on well, with the family in no particular order closer to the top table than the rest of the guests. I never care where I'm sitting and am grateful that people have chosen to include me on what is 'their' day, and I think such pettiness is unfair and unnecessary. And as you say, you're paying for it, it's your choice who's invited (and where they sit!)

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 15:11

I really think shite to anyone who has a problem at a wedding...it's the special day of two people and it should be perfect for them, whether that be in a room with everyone they've ever met or alone somewhere. It's their day for them to remember, not to be spent pleasing everyone else

*AndyK* · 09 Sep 2008, 15:44

Sinple answer to the seating plan plroblem ... don't have one. Apart from the "top table" let the other guests sit where the hell they want and with whoever they want, that way if they don't like who they're sat with they've only got themselves to blame.

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 15:59

Saves money on making place cards too!

mszee · 09 Sep 2008, 15:59

Quote:

Originally Posted by AndyK

Sinple answer to the seating plan plroblem ... don't have one. Apart from the "top table" let the other guests sit where the hell they want and with whoever they want, that way if they don't like who they're sat with they've only got themselves to blame.

Can you imagine havoc that will occur if you do that???

*AndyK* · 09 Sep 2008, 16:13

In my younger years I worked for a firm who filmed and produced wedding videos, as such I saw some 25 weddings a year for about 5 years. A fair number of these didn't have a formal seating plan for the reception and the only chaos I saw was the confused look on people's faces when they saw there was no seating plan, once they'd got over that then it was all fine and everyone sorted themselves out.

Deb · 09 Sep 2008, 16:17

Wow A+L you both have a lot to say in this thread and seem to have put a lot of thought into it

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 16:17

Guess it depends if any of the guests have had arguments recently

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 16:18

Quote:

Originally Posted by Deb

Wow A+L you both have a lot to say in this thread and seem to have put a lot of thought into it

I'm very impressed that this thread reached almost 2 pages long before anyone said that!

Deb · 09 Sep 2008, 16:20

That's because i've only just read it

mszee · 09 Sep 2008, 16:22

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lucy!

I'm very impressed that this thread reached almost 2 pages long before anyone said that!

Read the thread again...LOL...

*AndyK* · 09 Sep 2008, 16:23

Impressed? I'm disappointed that the obvious jokes were missed for so long ... you lot are slacking!

Deb · 09 Sep 2008, 16:24

I'm not slacking

LucyK! · 09 Sep 2008, 16:27

Just spotted it Zina

Now we don't want this going off topic, do we, so..other people's weddings!!!

One of the best weddings I've been to was that of my aunt and uncle I mentioned. My uncle had been married before and had been with my aunt for a good ten years so it was more of a 'grown up' wedding than the big dress and fancy reception. The service was at a register office then we all piled over to the pub belonging to another of my aunt's, stayed there for a few hours then went back to the happy couple's house and fired up the BBQ...it was really casual and so far from anything I'd have thought of, but for a couple of their age it worked wonderfully

mszee · 09 Sep 2008, 16:28

I am not slacking...I am just very busy being tactful and looking for a huge picture hat...

09 Sep 2008, 16:17	#42
Deb Mega Loafer Join Date: 26.04.2003 Location: Did I say that?... Posts: 4,162	Wow A+L you both have a lot to say in this thread and seem to have put a lot of thought into it runs and takes cover

06 Sep 2008, 19:17	#26
mszee Mega Loafer Join Date: 29.03.2006 Location: And you think you're down under??? Posts: 26,252	Her name is Amanda

06 Sep 2008, 22:03	#27
Blackkat13 Mega Loafer Join Date: 30.07.2006 Location: Hell, Michigan Posts: 1,989	Tonight is the last bacherlotte party's and the brides maid that is throwing it is going to make my sister where a veil that has condoms glued to it. My sister don't want where it or play the card game her bride maid has in store for her since it is don't do the card take a shot. I'm not going since I don't drive and it's 20 miles away, kinda wanta go but don't drink so it'll be kinda dull for me. My sister don't want to do anything like kiss another guy, where pantys around her feet, excange bras, give out her number, and those are the tame ones they get more worse.

08 Sep 2008, 11:32	#28
Pudding I'm A Prize Fight Lover... Join Date: 22.10.2003 Location: New Zealand Posts: 5,532	Seems like your sister is smart and justs wants to have fun but not behave like a slut. Pud

08 Sep 2008, 13:57	#29
LucyK! The Monster Is Luce Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 7,547	I'd rather a silent wedding reception than play any of the songs mentioned in this thread!

08 Sep 2008, 21:19	#30
Blackkat13 Mega Loafer Join Date: 30.07.2006 Location: Hell, Michigan Posts: 1,989	I was hanging out w/my sister and her boyfriend and we were at the maid of honors house with her family. We all had a nice big helping of penis cake. That was something a little different and I brought home to my parents a ball each. Yeah, Pud my sister can be smart at times but she does do alot of dumb things at times to. She said the best time of the night was wearing the vale with condoms on it and trying to glow bowl.

08 Sep 2008, 22:59	#32
Battybarb Nutty Tart From Hell Join Date: 25.05.2007 Location: liverpool Posts: 8,390	Pud that video is bloody brilliant...so funny..

09 Sep 2008, 11:19	#34
LucyK! The Monster Is Luce Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 7,547	To hell with everyone else, if you don't want someone at your wedding then you don't invite them, it's your special day, end of (joint decision, obviously! ) Pud I'm dying to see your wedding album!

09 Sep 2008, 14:49	#35
mszee Mega Loafer Join Date: 29.03.2006 Location: And you think you're down under??? Posts: 26,252	Yeah, I thought it was a very cool wedding too... Pud... ???

09 Sep 2008, 14:53	#36
~Helen~ Mega Loafer Join Date: 01.11.2007 Location: Manchester Posts: 1,958	Even if you do invite everyone people will still get uppity about something. At my cousin's wedding, one of my aunts was getting irritated because people she thought weren't as close relations as she was, were sitting closer to the top table than her. But my cousin had gone to a lot of trouble to make sure everyone was sitting with people with whom they would get on well, with the family in no particular order closer to the top table than the rest of the guests. I never care where I'm sitting and am grateful that people have chosen to include me on what is 'their' day, and I think such pettiness is unfair and unnecessary. And as you say, you're paying for it, it's your choice who's invited (and where they sit!)

09 Sep 2008, 15:11	#37
LucyK! The Monster Is Luce Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 7,547	I really think shite to anyone who has a problem at a wedding...it's the special day of two people and it should be perfect for them, whether that be in a room with everyone they've ever met or alone somewhere. It's their day for them to remember, not to be spent pleasing everyone else

09 Sep 2008, 15:44	#38
AndyK Relentless Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Over the top..... seeing what's on the other side Posts: 18,694	Sinple answer to the seating plan plroblem ... don't have one. Apart from the "top table" let the other guests sit where the hell they want and with whoever they want, that way if they don't like who they're sat with they've only got themselves to blame.

09 Sep 2008, 15:59	#39
LucyK! The Monster Is Luce Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 7,547	Saves money on making place cards too!

09 Sep 2008, 16:13	#41
AndyK Relentless Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Over the top..... seeing what's on the other side Posts: 18,694	In my younger years I worked for a firm who filmed and produced wedding videos, as such I saw some 25 weddings a year for about 5 years. A fair number of these didn't have a formal seating plan for the reception and the only chaos I saw was the confused look on people's faces when they saw there was no seating plan, once they'd got over that then it was all fine and everyone sorted themselves out.

09 Sep 2008, 16:20	#45
Deb Mega Loafer Join Date: 26.04.2003 Location: Did I say that?... Posts: 4,162	That's because i've only just read it

09 Sep 2008, 16:23	#47
AndyK Relentless Join Date: 21.11.2003 Location: Over the top..... seeing what's on the other side Posts: 18,694	Impressed? I'm disappointed that the obvious jokes were missed for so long ... you lot are slacking!

09 Sep 2008, 16:24	#48
Deb Mega Loafer Join Date: 26.04.2003 Location: Did I say that?... Posts: 4,162	I'm not slacking

09 Sep 2008, 16:27	#49
LucyK! The Monster Is Luce Join Date: 14.04.2002 Location: Posts: 7,547	Just spotted it Zina Now we don't want this going off topic, do we, so..other people's weddings!!! One of the best weddings I've been to was that of my aunt and uncle I mentioned. My uncle had been married before and had been with my aunt for a good ten years so it was more of a 'grown up' wedding than the big dress and fancy reception. The service was at a register office then we all piled over to the pub belonging to another of my aunt's, stayed there for a few hours then went back to the happy couple's house and fired up the BBQ...it was really casual and so far from anything I'd have thought of, but for a couple of their age it worked wonderfully

09 Sep 2008, 16:28	#50
mszee Mega Loafer Join Date: 29.03.2006 Location: And you think you're down under??? Posts: 26,252	I am not slacking...I am just very busy being tactful and looking for a huge picture hat...