any advice?

Fallen Angel · 17 Oct 2005, 16:43

hi folks.
i really dunno what to do. during lunch today i went over to the cemetery as no1 has been to see my lil brothers grave since he died 11yrs ago. so today i felt it was time i paid my respects. myself and a couple of very trusted friends hunted all round the cemetery for my brothers grave to no avail.
so we went up to the guy who notes down all the burials...turns out no one had marked the grave. its as if my folks were trying to forget they ever had a son. so the grave was just rocks n muck..no sign of rememberance anywhere. so now what marks his grave is a plastic wallet with his name in it, a letter, a single flower and a plant that a very kind lady gave me.
im so peeved at my folks righ now and i cant tell them as itll cause an uproar.
what do i do??

amethyst · 18 Oct 2005, 08:23

Can you not speak to the people in charge of the cemetary and see if there is any way you could put some sort of memorial on there for him?

Gez · 19 Oct 2005, 16:26

Good advice above.......dont 4get him

17 Oct 2005, 16:43	#1
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	any advice? hi folks. i really dunno what to do. during lunch today i went over to the cemetery as no1 has been to see my lil brothers grave since he died 11yrs ago. so today i felt it was time i paid my respects. myself and a couple of very trusted friends hunted all round the cemetery for my brothers grave to no avail. so we went up to the guy who notes down all the burials...turns out no one had marked the grave. its as if my folks were trying to forget they ever had a son. so the grave was just rocks n muck..no sign of rememberance anywhere. so now what marks his grave is a plastic wallet with his name in it, a letter, a single flower and a plant that a very kind lady gave me. im so peeved at my folks righ now and i cant tell them as itll cause an uproar. what do i do??

18 Oct 2005, 08:23	#2
amethyst I know that i'll be bad for good. Join Date: 15.11.2003 Location: South UK Posts: 893	Can you not speak to the people in charge of the cemetary and see if there is any way you could put some sort of memorial on there for him?

19 Oct 2005, 16:26	#3
Gez Knicker thief Join Date: 17.04.2003 Location: auch...not on the fence Posts: 5,633	Good advice above.......dont 4get him