I need some advice! - Page 2

mszee · 15 Jun 2007, 11:42

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Originally Posted by SamCat

Its also a great indicator that men cant use the washing machine!!

And they are also probably the ones that compile statistical facts...

**RadioMaster** · 15 Jun 2007, 11:58

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Originally Posted by mszee

Imost of us been there and done that...or will be there and will do THAT...

.....but I wont do THAT

Hypnobabe · 15 Jun 2007, 12:03

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Originally Posted by SamCat

Its also a great indicator that men cant use the washing machine!!

Fallen Angel · 15 Jun 2007, 12:12

Hey folks
Thank you! As of today i have realised that he was with her the full time he was with me and tbh theres only so much hurt i can take from one guy. Looking back it would explain alot of things. Part of me wants to delete his number and forget i ever knew him but part of still wnats to hold on to what left of some unusual friendship but i guess that doing so would hurt even more. When we were split we had very little contact and i was back to being my gd old self- when all this came up i burst into tears n dont understand why. SO now im walking with a lot of anger, questions and resentment. Im confused and wish i could believe hiom but i cant!
Hugs
leeann
xx

mszee · 15 Jun 2007, 17:51

And this too shall pass...

It will get better...trust me...no contact whatsoever will help even better...

New love will do wonders...there is no better cure for love than a new love!!!

Spider · 15 Jun 2007, 19:39

mszee is absolutely right - a new love will work wonders!!! One day soon you'll be able to be friends with him and then you'll wonder what you actually ever saw in him, but for now it'll hurt like hell!!!

Fallen Angel · 17 Jun 2007, 17:27

update!! After constantly arguin for the past 2days last nite he called and his number is no longer in my phone. He told me to forget all about him and not contact ever so i asked him to do the same. Although losing him has upset me im taking this time to make a new strat in my life- im looking for new work, starting college in sept, kicking my butt into gear regarding my own happiness and trying to improve home relationships. Im only18 and im making a fresh start without the stress of chris!!! Yay! Thank you all for helping me so much these past few days!
hugs
leeann

MeatGrl1 · 17 Jun 2007, 20:10

Congratuations hun !

Here's wishing you all the best with your brand new life

.

mszee · 17 Jun 2007, 21:59

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Originally Posted by Fallen Angel

update!! After constantly arguin for the past 2days last nite he called and his number is no longer in my phone. He told me to forget all about him and not contact ever so i asked him to do the same. Although losing him has upset me im taking this time to make a new strat in my life- im looking for new work, starting college in sept, kicking my butt into gear regarding my own happiness and trying to improve home relationships. Im only18 and im making a fresh start without the stress of chris!!! Yay! Thank you all for helping me so much these past few days!
hugs
leeann

Sounds like things turned out for a better...good luck!!!

Fallen Angel · 17 Jun 2007, 21:59

Cheers hun
hugs
leeann
xx

Pudding · 18 Jun 2007, 12:42

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Originally Posted by Fallen Angel

Although losing him has upset me

I think losing a leg would upset me more, but then I'd have comfort in knowing I can have a replacement plastic leg. Perhaps you should get yourself a replacement plastic (or rubber) bloke, low maintenance, don't argue back and you can stuff it in your wardrobe when you get a bit bored.

Pud

L96 · 18 Jun 2007, 12:55

Coin-operated boy.... great song... not to mention brilliant idea.

Fallen Angel · 19 Jun 2007, 00:45

great idea lol. Saw himw today in passing- looked at the ground n cried but i think that was jjust coz i hadnt had enuff time to sort my head out lol
Got my eye on another guy who goes to some healthy eating thing but thurs. is my last chance to actually speak to him n see if he wants to go for a drink or sumthing
Any tips?
hugs
leeann
xx

SamCat · 19 Jun 2007, 00:51

Just go for it!! The worst thing that can happen is he says no but if you dont ask you'll be regretting it for ages!! Dont take it too seriously tho cos this will be your rebound date and they rarely work out but they can be great fun!!!

Fallen Angel · 19 Jun 2007, 01:01

will keep that in mind hun:)
hugs
leeann
xx

mszee · 19 Jun 2007, 15:54

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Originally Posted by Fallen Angel

great idea lol. Saw himw today in passing- looked at the ground n cried but i think that was jjust coz i hadnt had enuff time to sort my head out lol
Got my eye on another guy who goes to some healthy eating thing but thurs. is my last chance to actually speak to him n see if he wants to go for a drink or sumthing
Any tips?
hugs
leeann
xx

Just do it...

Fallen Angel · 19 Jun 2007, 16:46

now why did that just bring meat loaf to mind mszee lol Your right just gotta go for it. You never know if u dont ask lol

mszee · 19 Jun 2007, 16:50

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Originally Posted by Fallen Angel

now why did that just bring meat loaf to mind mszee lol Your right just gotta go for it. You never know if u dont ask lol

Well, that's what Meat would do...and Brian Boetano...

Fallen Angel · 19 Jun 2007, 18:08

Benny · 19 Jun 2007, 18:35

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Originally Posted by Pudding

You tell him that a relationship is based on trust and although in time you may be able to forgive him, you'll never be able to forget what he's done, nor fully trust him again.

Pud

Very true..

SamCat · 22 Jun 2007, 14:35

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Originally Posted by Fallen Angel

great idea lol. Saw himw today in passing- looked at the ground n cried but i think that was jjust coz i hadnt had enuff time to sort my head out lol
Got my eye on another guy who goes to some healthy eating thing but thurs. is my last chance to actually speak to him n see if he wants to go for a drink or sumthing
Any tips?
hugs
leeann
xx

Did you speak to him? I'm dying to know!!!

mszee · 22 Jun 2007, 15:21

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Originally Posted by SamCat

Did you speak to him? I'm dying to know!!!

Boy, you're one heck of a curious George!!!

SamCat · 22 Jun 2007, 16:00

I know i'm a gemini its our nature!!

mszee · 22 Jun 2007, 16:01

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Originally Posted by SamCat

I know i'm a gemini its our nature!!

Not really....every Gemini I ever knew wasn't in the least curious...but then again...they were all men...

SamCat · 22 Jun 2007, 16:05

And i absolutely hate it when people know gossip that i dont know!!!

View Poll Results: What do i do?
Listen to my instict n boot him out	20	76.92%
Beleive that he wouldnt lie n hold on in there when hes lied before	0	0%
forget i know him	6	23.08%
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15 Jun 2007, 12:12	#29
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	Hey folks Thank you! As of today i have realised that he was with her the full time he was with me and tbh theres only so much hurt i can take from one guy. Looking back it would explain alot of things. Part of me wants to delete his number and forget i ever knew him but part of still wnats to hold on to what left of some unusual friendship but i guess that doing so would hurt even more. When we were split we had very little contact and i was back to being my gd old self- when all this came up i burst into tears n dont understand why. SO now im walking with a lot of anger, questions and resentment. Im confused and wish i could believe hiom but i cant! Hugs leeann xx

15 Jun 2007, 17:51	#30
mszee Mega Loafer Join Date: 29.03.2006 Location: And you think you're down under??? Posts: 26,252	And this too shall pass... It will get better...trust me...no contact whatsoever will help even better... New love will do wonders...there is no better cure for love than a new love!!!

15 Jun 2007, 19:39	#31
Spider Super Loafer Join Date: 04.04.2007 Location: Cape Town Posts: 621	mszee is absolutely right - a new love will work wonders!!! One day soon you'll be able to be friends with him and then you'll wonder what you actually ever saw in him, but for now it'll hurt like hell!!!

17 Jun 2007, 17:27	#32
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	update!! After constantly arguin for the past 2days last nite he called and his number is no longer in my phone. He told me to forget all about him and not contact ever so i asked him to do the same. Although losing him has upset me im taking this time to make a new strat in my life- im looking for new work, starting college in sept, kicking my butt into gear regarding my own happiness and trying to improve home relationships. Im only18 and im making a fresh start without the stress of chris!!! Yay! Thank you all for helping me so much these past few days! hugs leeann

17 Jun 2007, 20:10	#33
MeatGrl1 No Day But Today Join Date: 29.05.2006 Location: Sitting on the steps outside looking so restless and reckless and lost! Posts: 9,089	Congratuations hun ! Here's wishing you all the best with your brand new life .

17 Jun 2007, 21:59	#35
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	Cheers hun hugs leeann xx

18 Jun 2007, 12:55	#37
L96 Inaugural goldfish winner Join Date: 04.07.2005 Location: In a handbasket. Believe me, for someone my height, it's hell... Posts: 2,373	Coin-operated boy.... great song... not to mention brilliant idea.

19 Jun 2007, 00:45	#38
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	great idea lol. Saw himw today in passing- looked at the ground n cried but i think that was jjust coz i hadnt had enuff time to sort my head out lol Got my eye on another guy who goes to some healthy eating thing but thurs. is my last chance to actually speak to him n see if he wants to go for a drink or sumthing Any tips? hugs leeann xx

19 Jun 2007, 00:51	#39
SamCat Hello Harry!!!! Join Date: 12.09.2006 Location: London Posts: 3,086	Just go for it!! The worst thing that can happen is he says no but if you dont ask you'll be regretting it for ages!! Dont take it too seriously tho cos this will be your rebound date and they rarely work out but they can be great fun!!!

19 Jun 2007, 01:01	#40
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	will keep that in mind hun:) hugs leeann xx

19 Jun 2007, 16:46	#42
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693	now why did that just bring meat loaf to mind mszee lol Your right just gotta go for it. You never know if u dont ask lol

19 Jun 2007, 18:08	#44
Fallen Angel Youth Gone Wild Join Date: 19.09.2003 Location: See the mad one over there.... Posts: 693

22 Jun 2007, 16:00	#48
SamCat Hello Harry!!!! Join Date: 12.09.2006 Location: London Posts: 3,086	I know i'm a gemini its our nature!!

22 Jun 2007, 16:05	#50
SamCat Hello Harry!!!! Join Date: 12.09.2006 Location: London Posts: 3,086	And i absolutely hate it when people know gossip that i dont know!!!