Caryl, it seems to me that people feel free to say rotten things in a net forum that they would never say to a person's face. I have wondered if they don't realize that there is another person with feelings on the receiving end of those personal comments. Typing off a mean word or two just doesn't seem to be insulting a real person. If they are talking that same trash in person...bet they spend a lot of time either alone or in bandages.