R.
just a question here,i've read the above explanation by you,
but can't really understand the point/purpose of "buddy "thing.....
perhaps it's just me...
the "ignored by" bit worries me, surely this will cause ill feeling....if you end up on someone's "ignored by" list.
Won't it cause division and ill feeling on the forum??
I'm genuinely concerned by this....hence this post
Bren