Is it really bad that I don't really mind, seeing as I'll by then be dead...at least hopefully at my funeral I'll be dead (worst nightmare is being presumed dead when I'm not, and being put in a wooden box and buried...argh!). My mother is quite keen she wants a gospel choir at her funeral...but I don't know for me - whatever those who loved & cared about me want will be fine for me, seeing as it's them has to sit through the funeral...it would be maybe a little harsh to inflict something particularly sad on them...so whatever cheers them up (unless they're cheering already, in which case bring on the sad song!
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