I agree...dress code is usually determined by organizers of the party...it appears to me a bit casual for the wedding what you want to wear...
As to programs...google it and you will come up with just about everything "wedding" possible...
I don't know if you're going to announce wedding party in the program but if you do, it's always nice to put something in memory of those who can't be there if there are close relatives who passed away...goes down well...
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